“When Christians Clash”
Read Acts 15:39-41
“There was such a sharp disagreement that they parted company and Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed off to Cyprus.” (vs. 39)
We touched on the preceding verse last time and Beth continues with a four-step plan for dealing with conflicts between believers.
- “Identify the real source of the argument. Ask the Holy Spirit to shed light on the TRUE source. Sometimes we believe that conviction is the motivation for our differing views until we allow God to reveal our selfishness or unwillingness to change. Part of spiritual maturity is risking our position in favor of the will and glory of God. Let’s be willing to allow Him to shed light on any selfish or worldly motive.
- Submit the issue to God. James 4:7 exhorts, “Submit to God. But resist the devil and he will flee from you.’ ‘When we ask God to remove all selfish, worldly motives and influences of the enemy, issues often either disappear or downsize to a workable level.
- Resist the temptation to sin in your anger. Anger in and of itself is not sin. It is an emotion, and sometimes a very appropriate emotion. But unfortunately, anger heightens the risk of wrong actions or words. Each of us regrets something we’ve said or done in anger.
- Pray for (and if possible, with) the other person involved. Prayer changes things and people! Philippines 4:6 invites us to “pray about everything”. Can you imagine how defeated the enemy would be if two divided leaders or laymen got down on their knees together and prayed for God’s glory? We don’t have to be together on every issue, but we can be together in prayer.”
Do you have any other ideas to share?
Vicky
“Now may the God of endurance and encouragement grant you agreement with one another, according to Christ Jesus, so that you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ with a united mind and voice.” Romans 15:5-6 HCSB
Paul, 90 Days in His Journey of Faith / Beth Moore / B & H Publishing
